Road Warrior Momma

Road Warrior Momma

Thursday, June 21, 2018

Day 19 - June 17, 2018, San Francisco, CA



Day 19, June 17, 2018
San Francisco, CA
Tons of Miles by foot/hours

You guys, I wrote a super long post about this day. It was Epic! We rocked this city and I had good stories to share. It pains me to even type this – I didn’t save the document. I lost everything. This sucks. I’m attempting to recreate it, but my heart isn’t in it – so forgive what follows.

Rich wanted us to get up at 5 a.m. this morning, to be the first ones on the Cable Car (as we’ve experienced dreadful lines in the past). Um, no. Majority rules.

We stepped onto the Mason Street Cable Car at 8 a.m. (after about a 20-minute wait). Children loved it, and we rode all the way to the Wharf. We walked to Pier 39, the location of our favorite SF breakfast spot, The Eagle Café. They serve an out-of-this-word Bloody Mary. I swear there’s about a half a pound of crab meat in the cocktail. Kelly and I split one. Trust me, it’s built for two.

After breakfast, we walked down the pier to see the sea lions. The children were enthralled by their barking. It was quite chilly, and I believe that made them more playful. Even I had fun watching them roll around and play fight with each other. That’s until a bird almost flew into my head. Buh-bye.

Back to Fisherman’s Wharf, we strolled and window shopped until we got to the Bueno Vista, where we pressured Kelly to order an Irish Coffee. When in San Francisco… She complied, but only took a few sips.

Next stop was Ghirardelli Square, where the children indulged in free samples and purchased chocolate covered strawberries. From there, we wandered to the waterside, where there's a little beach. Rich wanted to go swimming (as he always does when we’re here), but he forgot his towel.

We continued walking westward, towards the Golden Gate, so we could get a decent picture. I would have preferred to have walked all the way to the bridge, but I knew there’d be mutiny! We made it to Fort Mason and got a few pictures, but sadly the day was still overcast at that point. Hunter complained that he was hungry (he didn’t care for his breakfast). He’d spotted an In and Out Burger back on the Wharf, and it didn’t take much to convince Rich. They took off for fast food (and probably hailed a cab as soon as they were out of sight), promising to meet up with us at Grace Cathedral, where we were meeting Brianna.

Brianna is the daughter of some friends of ours from way back when we first moved to Atlanta, in 1998. Once upon a time, Rich and I baby sat her (and her brother). When the twins were born, Brianna sometimes helped me with the boys. She’s now 26, and a gorgeous-single-career girl-all-about town in San Francisco. Time sure does fly.

The journey from the Sunset Beach area to Nob Hill is an arduous one. Kelly, the remaining children, and I climbed some pretty sturdy hills. What a workout. There was some whining involved and I often had to rally the troops, but they did it! Camden declared, “I can’t wait to tell my friends I scaled the mountains of San Francisco! And I regretted every minute of it!”

We didn’t get to go inside Grace Cathedral, as there was a mass. That was a bummer, because that church is pretty impressive, and I really wanted the kids to see it. We met up with Brianna – stunning as always - and were soon joined by Hunter and Rich, who arrived by cab. 

We headed over to my favorite hotel, The Fairmont, to have refreshments and snacks. Hunter was most impressed and asked why we weren’t staying there. I explained that it was rather pricey, not appropriate for the road trip – nor children. He asked me if I’d stayed there before. When I admitted that I had, multiple times, he declared, “Well that’s selfish.” A spoiled 17-year-old should know!

Brianna elected to join us for part two of our expedition. An added bonus - as we left the Fairmont we discovered that the sun was out. The day ended up being glorious. We headed over to Lombard Street to show the children the city’s most crooked street. The trek once again involved steep hills – up and down, and soon Rich, Brianna and Kelly bailed. They called an Uber. Can you image? Proud of my chickadees, they stuck with me!

We met up wit the lazy threesome at the bottom of Lombard. There was an SFPD officer handing out sticker badges to some children and we tried to get Camden to go over. He wasn’t interested, “I’m not the guy who takes stickers.” Well, excuse us!

Our next site was Coit Tower. I wanted to walk, but there was dissension in the ranks. Audrey joined the opposing team and hopped in a cab with Kelly, Rich, and Brianna. Me and my boys, we soldiered on (although not without some choice comments from Cam). We arrived in impressive time (the lazy team was shocked by how quickly we made it), even after climbing what seemed like endless stairs to get to the tower (after three steep hills). I must confess, even my heart was beating quickly when we got there.

After a brief respite, we started descending Telegraph Hill to visit the Embarcadero and the Ferry Building. My dear husband, however, kept shooting me the bird when his children weren’t looking. Upon arrival at the Ferry Building, Rich peeled off with Brianna, to get a drink. Kelly and I treated the children to some much-deserved ice cream. We collected Rich and Bri and then had to say goodbye to Brianna. Rich, along with Kelly and Audrey, escorted Brianna home by cab. My three sons and I fished the last leg of our journey on foot.

Today is Father’s Day and we had reservations at The Hillstone Grill (AKA Houston’s). I picked the restaurant naively thinking that it would be somewhat affordable (by SF standards) for the whole family. Simply not the case. Other Houston’s establishments where we’ve dined across to country have offered children’s menu. This one did not and refused to make any accommodations. In other words, my 10-year-old dined on $34 grilled salmon! I’m still sick to my stomach over the bill. Highway robbery people! Plus, there was a 3% surcharged to cover the SF mandated healthcare law. I wasn’t even going to tell Rich that (as I was paying), but somebody else at the table spilled the beans. You can only imagine the commentary.

I decided to walk home, so Rich wouldn’t see me sulk. I’m mostly over it now, the price of doing business in this city I love (although I’m a little upset with SF now, as you’ll see tomorrow). Barrett – of his own accord – walked back with me. I tried to get Hunter to join us, and he kind of threw a hissy when Rich said there was no room in the cab for him. End result? The cabbie made room.

Bear is the best walking companion. He walks fast like me, holds my hand, and never bitches about the distance. And let me tell you – it was a long walk home. When we got back, he received a standing ovation from his siblings!

Well, somehow I landed in the flow, found my voice again, and typed my heart away! I can't believe I was able to recreate this post. A sign????










                                             Carol, this one (above) is for you! XOXO 













Happy Father's Day Richie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Day 18 - June 16, 2018, San Fran!



Day 18, June 16, 2018
Walnut Creek, CA – Alameda, CA – Sonoma, CA – San Francisco, CA
131 miles/2 ½  hours

It was so much easier to load our stuff this morning😊 – three abled-bodied adults and two vehicles. Sweet! Our first stop was Alameda, CA, where we had an early, lunch with Aunt Carol. Carol is Rich’s mom’s sister and she is hilarious! She is full of one-liners and just cracks me up. Between Carol and Cammy we were completely entertained. Sadly, our visit was limited to just lunch, so it was hard to really catch up – but at least we got to see her and get hugs and kisses.

It was too early to check in, and this is Kelly’s first visit to the San Fran area, so Rich and I elected for a detour to Sonoma, so she could she the square and visit at least one winery. Also, Momma got to visit one of her favorite book stores, Sonoma Books. No author encounters this visit.
We stopped at Jacuzzi Winery. Isn’t that a funny name? We didn’t pick it based on its name, but rather the Winery’s gorgeous grounds and building. Our wine guy said they consider themselves to be a boutique winery, and are a sister winery to Kline (of which I’m unfamiliar). Anyway, we tasted their wine and it was good enough to buy a bottle. And just like that, our sojourn in Sonoma was over.

We reached the Golden Gate in no time – and I got butterflies, the good kind. I love San Francisco!
Traffic in the city was horrible. We got to the hotel about 5ish. It’s a huge Marriott with like over a 1,000 rooms. The lobby was a zoo, as was parking. Dudes, they wanted $77 dollars a night for parking. Jeez. Rich was tired and fed up, so he paid it, while Kelly elected to park around the corner for $38 a night. The bellman warned us to make sure we leave nothing in the car. Apparently, homeless people will smash the windows of cars and steal anything.

Room Service for the kids. Some city time for the rest of us. We stopped at the St. Francis for a cocktail and were treated to some very grand people watching. It was the venue for the San Francisco Debutante Ball. You would not believe the dresses, Oscar worthy!

We didn’t have any reservations and walked around looking, when we came upon a Morton’s Steakhouse. We took it as a sign and had dinner at the bar. Our dinner was fabulous. Thanks Kelly! Early to bed, because Momma has quite the agenda for tomorrow and I don’t think anyone (besides Rich, who’s already scared) has any idea what they’re in for. Giddy-up!



                                                              Lunch with Aunt Carol









Tuesday, June 19, 2018

Day 17 - June 15, 2018, Walnut Creek, CA



Day 17, June 15, 2018
Medford, OR – Walnut Creek, CA
356 miles/5 ½  hours

I must be getting older, because in the past when I’ve visited the west coast, my body clock usually stays on east-coast time. In other words, I’d get up early and get the day started. Not this time, I’m actually sleeping late for the west coast. Sleepy. Consequently, we got a late start.

Today we traveled to Walnut Creek (a town in the east Bay of SGF), California. My children have now officially been to forty-eight states. Only one of them probably remembers all of them, but at least I have pictures and journals to prove it.

My best friend from seventh grade. Leanne (Raggee) Chapple lives in Concord, CA, a neighboring town to Walnut Creek. This stop was planned for my reunion. For those of you at home, she’s Mandy’s sister. Also, Kelly, my sister-in-law- flew into town to join us for a few days, as did Rich. So it was all a bit of a party when we finally got to the hotel. No sites to share, just pictures of people I love.


Oh, there was a BIG fight in the back of the car as we approached the California state line – over who was going to be the first person in the state, once we got to the state. Huge fight. Really?



Day 16 - June 14, 2018, Nedford, OR



Day 16, June 14, 2018
Cannon Beach, OR – Salem, OR – Crater Lake NP – Medford, OR
407 miles/8 hours

Damn! I am exhausted! We woke up at six, showered, packed up and headed down the coast to Salem, OR. The capitol building was a bit unusual, having and art-deco architectural style. It was the third capitol building for Oregon – the first two burnt down. This one was completed in 1938 and designed by the New York Architect _________. I already forgot his name. sorry.

The next leg of our journey was very long, but paid off with some amazing views. Lots of mountains, lakes, and tall pines. I’ve been wanting to see Crater Lake ever since I read Wild by Cheryl Strayed. Her description of the lake intrigued me so that I Googled it while reading the book. I knew that one day I would have to see it for myself. It was created by a falling meteor and the results are breathtaking. The water is so blue, you’d thing you were in the Caribbean, except for the snowcapped mountains. So cool.

Our final stop was Medford, OR. Sorry, I got nothing, just a place to sleep. And let me tell you, momma was tired!!!!!!!!!!! Tomorrow – California and reinforcements.











Sunday, June 17, 2018

Day 15 - June 13, 2013, Cannon Beach



Day 15, June 13, 2018
Cannon Beach, OR
0 miles/0 hours

Did I mention that I love this town? I really do. The people aren’t exactly super friendly, but it’s pretty and slow-paced, so I don’t really care. We’ve brought our southern hospitality to spice things up.

We spent the day being lazy in the cottage watching TV and working (me). We strolled to “downtown” and I took about fifty pictures of people’s gardens. The flowers out here are spectacular. I’m so jealous. My petunias didn’t even look that good when I bought them. We had lunch and window shopped, which included a stop at the local book store (not my favorite).

After, we went to the beach and a few of us were dumb crazy enough to go in the water. They didn’t last long. We returned to the cottage for my TV and naps (me). Before dinner, we took another stroll on the shore – and the sun was out! Gorgeous!

We ate dinner in the cottage tonight and watched The Goldbergs and Last Man Standing. It was cozy and relaxing and perfect. A nice recharge. Tomorrow will be a very long day!